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9 words that a smart mom never says to her child

Published: 2010-09-23 Author: Blue Spirit Parenting Network editor Parenting Network h20pulse.com

In life, parents and children communicate almost every day. What confuses many parents is that they often “ditch” frequently, but the actual effect is often “unconnected”. There are some mistakes in educating children, and many parents always make them repeatedly without even realizing it. Some words, smart mothers never say, do you know what it is?

1. "Baby, you are too smart!"

Too much praise will cause children many restraints and burdens. When parents' expectations are not met, children will easily become frustrated and feel guilty. Parents always praise their children as "too clever". When the test results are not satisfactory, the children will have deep self-blame and frustration, and their self-esteem and self-confidence will be hit hard.

Therefore, it is best for parents to praise their child for something specific, such as "your homework is well written today!"

2. "Fool, useless stuff!"

When the child's test scores are not satisfactory, some parents will yell, "Fool! Papaya!" This practice will cause serious damage to the child's self-esteem. The right thing to do is to criticize things and not people. If you don't want your child to be a "fool", appreciate your child in the usual way, raise your thumbs up, encourage more, and suppress less.

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