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Make boys understand that frustration is part of life

Published: 2010-06-09 Author: Blue Spirit Parenting Network editor Parenting Network h20pulse.com

Parents are a mirror in the lives of their children, and they are the guides of their children. How parents deal with life's frustrations is, first, a test of parents' attitudes to life, and second, what kind of influence they have on their children. If parents are positive and optimistic in the face of setbacks, and see the setback as a new opportunity in life, then the child will also face the various setbacks in life under the influence of the parents and meet the challenges with a positive attitude. If parents are negatively pessimistic in the face of setbacks and avoid reality, then they can only reduce their prestige in the minds of their children, and it is not conducive to educating children to face up to setbacks.

A person's life is never smooth, long life, mixed with bitterness and joy, accompanied by sadness and joy, often more frustrated than smooth road. Setbacks accompany each boy's life and become part of their lives. Without letting the boy experience some setbacks, it may be difficult for them to adapt to a complex and changing society when they grow up. Let boys learn to resist setbacks from an early age, and they will become a brave man who continues to advance in life. Therefore, parents should guide boys to understand setbacks and treat them correctly, so as to overcome setbacks.

Throughout history, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign people, who have achieved success, have all withstood the test in the face of setbacks, thereby casting an extraordinary life. Everyone grows and develops in the process of continually understanding and overcoming setbacks. Only by profoundly understanding this can we face up to, cope with, and overcome setbacks bravely. If frustrations cannot be viewed correctly, they will stagnate in the face of frustrations, and they will be resentful, and in the end, nothing will happen.

On June 25, 2007, 18-year-old Zhou Jian found his college entrance examination score through the Internet, only 499 points, far from the previous estimate of 560 points, so he used a rope at home that afternoon alone. Ended the young life. When their parents came home from work and found out, they suddenly collapsed to the ground.

It turned out that Zhou Jian was a senior high school science student at the city's key middle school. After the college entrance examination, he felt that he was playing well. On the 25th, the first day of the results of the college entrance examination, parents went to work after lunch at noon. Zhou Jian went online to check the scores with fellow scholars, and he got less than 500 points, which was a long way from his expectations. He was very disappointed in himself and felt ashamed of his hard-working parents. Therefore, before the parents came home from work, they embarked on the road of suicide.

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